Staying Confident when you're not confident in your body

Now for me this is something I have learnt to do and honestly it isn't easy. Yes I do wish I was a lot slimmer however I'm confident knowing I'm taking steps to turn that wish into a reality and to be honest that what makes me feel confident in my current figure.

Weight comes and goes, your appearance isn't everything what really matters is that your the type of person you could be proud of for example I want to be the type of person I want my children to be.

I want to be confident, truthful, loyal and giving. Those are traits I want my children to have, those are traits to be proud of. I'm not the friendliest person due to my social awkwardness and let's face it a lot of people these days have there heads stuck up they're own ass. I'm a firm believer in equality. I don't believe I'm better then anyone else, all humans have the same value however morally I think I do come off as a more well rounded person then most. I'm not ashamed to admit that, it might sound a egotistical but I just have a caring heart and it seems like people forget to care about other people. They could just flip through a channel and hear about children dying and not think twice however I'm brought to tears practically because I'm extremely sympathetic. Sympathy is probably the best trait someone could have for others. Without sympathy we would just be monsters.

Struggling with weight can make you feel more judgemental towards others because subconsciously it empowers you and makes you feel "better" then them. What you need to realize is everyone has some issues they're trying to work on and appearances only portray a part of us what really matters is who we are as a person. You need to feel good about yourself and you also need to physically feel good by staying healthy.

This post was a bit all over the place but I hope it helped. Just remember be the person you would want your kids to be.